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Safe Shores – The DC Children’s Advocacy Center is committed to being a safe, helpful, and trustworthy resource, available to everyone who needs our services and support. Due to COVID-19, we are operating in a hybrid environment – combining in-person and remote work – and observing federal and local government public health protection guidelines. Masks are required on-site, and COVID-19 screening (questions and temperature check) is conducted upon arrival.

We want Safe Shores’ people and resources to be readily accessible to everyone who needs them. Here are the direct points of contact on our team for forensic interviews, mental health support, client advocacy, MDT matters, child abuse prevention training, fundraising, media, as well as general, non-urgent inquires.

To report suspected child abuse in the District of Columbia call 1-202-671-SAFE(7233)
To report suspected internet crimes against children, contact report.cybertip.org

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To report suspected child abuse / Para reportar sospechas de abuso:

1-202-671-SAFE (7233)

If you have an allegation of child abuse to report in the District of Columbia, please call 202-671-SAFE (7233).

Safe Shores does not take walk-in appointments. 

Recognizing Abuse

Signs of Sexual Abuse

Children who have been sexually abused may display a wide variety of emotional, behavioral, or physical symptoms. The signs below are not all inclusive or exclusive, but can serve as a guide to understanding an abused child’s behavior.

Behavioral and Emotional Signs

Behavioral and emotional signs do not always mean sexual abuse is occurring, but can also emerge during times of stress or in response to other trauma. In any case, it is an important reason to tell your child you notice the sign and ask them what is causing it.

  • Discloses that abuse has occurred
  • Anxiety or Depression
  • Sleep disturbances including nightmares or night terrors
  • Change in eating habits
  • Unusual fear of certain people or places; reluctance to be alone with a certain person
  • Changes in mood that could including anger, aggressiveness towards parents, siblings, friends, pets
  • Rebellion or withdrawal; runaway behavior
  • Change in attitude towards school or academic performance; lack of interest in friends, sports, or other activities
  • Unexplained or frequent health problems like headaches or stomachaches
  • Poor self-esteem; avoidance of relationships
  • Self-mutilation or change in body perception like thinking of self or body as dirty or bad; suicidal thoughts
  • Regression to previously outgrown behaviors, for example bedwetting or thumb sucking
  • Incorporating sexual subject matter into drawing, writing or play
  • Sexual behaviors or knowledge of sexual language and behaviors that are not appropriate for their developmental stage.
  • Too “perfect” behavior or overly compliant behavior

Physical Signs

Physical signs of sexual abuse are rare but may include:

  • Pain, bleeding or discharge in genitals, anus, or mouth
  • Vaginal infections
  • Recurrent urinary tract infections
  • Cuts or tears around the vaginal area or the anus
  • Other physical trauma (redness, rash, swelling) to genital or anal area
  • Persistent or recurring pain during urination or bowel movements
  • Wetting or soiling accidents unrelated to toilet training
  • Stained, torn, or bloody undergarments
  • Sexually transmitted diseases or pregnancy

If you see physical signs of abuse, have your child examined by a professional immediately, or call the police.

How to respond to a disclosure of child sexual abuse

Remain calm and don’t overreact. The child may feel more ashamed and guilty, shut down, or change their story if you react with anger or disbelief.

Believe the child and assure them what happened is not their fault.

  • Listen calmly
  • Allow silence in the conversation so the child does not feel rushed
  • If you must ask additional questions to make a report, only ask open ended questions as leading questions can confuse the child’s memory of events. Ask as few questions as possible, it is not your responsibility to investigate. Asking unnecessary questions may further harm the child.
    • Open-ended questions include:
      • “Can you tell me more?”
      • “What happened next?”
    • Examples of supportive responses include:
      • “I believe you”
      • “What happened is not your fault”
      • “This takes a lot of courage. I’m very proud of you for telling me.”
      • “We will get the support we need to get through this”
      • Do not make broad promises about the future, such as “I will keep this from ever happening again.”

Protect the child by ensuring they are not near the abuser and immediately reporting the abuse to the proper authorities. To report suspected child abuse in the District of Columbia, please call 202-671-SAFE (7233).